Frequently Asked Questions

Kay, how do I know if I need to work with you or have some guidance or help?

You’ll know if you have that sense of feeling like you’re going slower than you want to in your career progress. Others seem to either be leapfrogging you on the career path or you feel as if you’re beating your head against a brick wall trying to receive the recognition and rewards you know you deserve. It may be that you’ve lost your spark for what you do and want to look at repositioning your skills in another industry or market. It may be that all you need is to closely look at what you’ve done and what you’re doing and how it adds value. It’s hard to do this and see if for yourself, by yourself. That’s where either private VIP work with me can hone in on your next steps or by becoming part of one of my small mentoring groups can help. I know I wouldn’t be where I am now without private mentoring in areas where I was stuck.

How are you different from all the ‘women’s leadership’ coaches or courses out there?

Great question! It’s about all of you. Not just ‘leadership strategies’. What I help you discover and reconnect with is who you really are. We pull together all the threads of your experience and your story, we invite feedback, we use strategies and exact word-for-word language patterns which help you sound more certain, clear, assertive and credible. What’s different too is that we allow you to sparkle and shine. When I say ‘allow’ I mean I support you to give yourself permission to really step up and shine - both in how you dress and in how you think. Not hide out in the shadows anymore. Not giving over your achievements to others without taking a share of the limelight and rewards yourself. That’s different. I’ve worked with thousands of women now in both groups and privately to know exactly what works and to know who’s a fit for my work and if or how I can help.

What sort of things will your input and private mentoring help me to do?

Well, where to start. Get promoted after hoping and hinting for a while. Put your feelers out into other industries or markets to position your skills and expertise for new opportunities. Plan for key meetings or presentations so you’re prepared, confident and clear with your message and style. Manage tricky, slippery customers, colleagues or clients so you feel confident and resourceful when you negotiate and flexible as negotiations evolve. You can tell, these are just a few of the ways women use the skills and strategies I lay out for them. Privately in one-to-one work and in groups or at events. There has never been a better time to be a woman coming forward and asking for what she wants, expecting to receive it. My question to you is “When would now be a better time?”.


What’s a first step to finding out if or how you can help me?

The most direct route, outside of my 3-day Live Event, Show Up; Sparkle & Be Heard LIVE, is to apply here. All you do is complete this quick questionnaire and either I or one of my team will quickly be in touch with you to let you know what your best step is. As I sometimes have a waiting list of around 6 weeks to work with me privately, do reach out and we can look at where we are and what it is you most need quickly. I really understand how frustrating it can be and how it costs you precious time, money and energy to stay stuck. Let’s see what we can do to help and support you, right now.

What about your product Stop Being Ignored - is that a first step to take?

Yes it certainly is. I designed the simple-to-follow steps for this fully-downloadable product to make it possible to help women connect, email, leave messages from the word ‘Go'. The product comes directly to your Inbox in 3 easy pieces and I promise you, I follow my own steps and practice what I preach! If you’re struggling to speak up in meetings or at work in general or you’re fed up with waiting for people to get back to you in email or on the phone, invest in the product and see exactly what I mean. There’s a Bonus too! You can use all the investment of the product to take this straight off the ticket price to my next 3-Day Live Event. It’s all there on the page for you and I designed it to give you a simple, easy to follow place to start and make it extra value for you too.

Kay, I want to find out about you Speaking at my organisation or company, how do I do that?

Firstly, if you haven’t already, please take a look at my Speaker page to see if my message is a fit for your organisation. You'll see many companies who’ve engaged me to speak to their audiences and, if it works, we can include remote audiences too. I spoke recently in London to a group and we joined up with Bratislava, Geneva and Kiev. Another time from London with the East and West Coast of the USA. Just email me at and either I or one of my team will quickly be in touch.

So, if you have any questions I haven’t answered and want a quick, snappy response, please email us here. One of my Assistants Caroline or Helen will quickly respond to you and very often, it’s going to be me. It’s personal. It has to be. Otherwise, I’m not interested. You?