Contain it

Instead of the perfunctory “Hi, how are you?” question (which drives me nuts and I do my best to avoid answering) I always recommend containing the question by just asking “Hi, how are you today?” It’s such a different energy.  You...

Buying Time

I very rarely answer a question if I don’t want to.  Not straight out of the gate. There’s a thought that says if you’re asked a question you should answer it but my thinking is different. If I’m asked a question and I want to answer it, I...

Being Right

“Would you rather be right or would you rather be happy?”  This was a question posed to a client when seeking marriage guidance and I’ve always remembered it. The intention isn’t to rollover and never stand your ground about things....

Shhhh

How comfortable are you with silence?  Some people can’t bear the thought of it.  TV and/or radio on as quickly as possible.  Leaving them on whilst being at home or in the car. Nothing wrong and no judgement from me. Just the observation that...

Why?

‘Why’ is such a small and yet impactful word to notice, to understand and to be aware of as you use it.  Really, why? Well, it does two things very quickly, immediately in fact.  Two things you want to avoid.   One, it sends people straight to the...

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