Be More Selfish

If, or how you care for yourself or indeed if you put yourself first is something so many women struggle with.   Especially at the moment when so many things need extra care and attention – kiddos, friends and family, work...

Steve Jobs was Spot On

“You can only connect the dots looking backwards so you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future” and this quote from Steve Jobs couldn’t be more pertinent for us now. You’ve probably had your year-end review at work or...

All Tiaras and Tracksuits?

My friend Sarah coined this phrase “it’s all tracksuits and tiaras” for me as we were discussing showing up on Zoom/Teams/Webex etc for both work and for play. We agreed it doesn’t really matter what you wear on the...

Where to Start?

It’s easy to assume that you have to dive in to “say what has to be said” when you’ve made a decision or have a tricky message to deliver.   You can build yourself up, get a bit fretty and sweaty about it and then say what you...

Pivot or Pirouette?

Deciding to host another 2-day Virtual Retreat on Zoom was not so much a pivot as a pirouette.  Last week, 11 VIP Client and I met on Zoom for what would have been an in-person Retreat but, we all agreed, let’s keep going and let’s...

Tricky was always on the cards

Emily was beyond pi*sed off.  She told me she felt her wings had been clipped.  With a new company restructure it’s easy to fall down the cracks and what was working for you suddenly – through no fault of your own –...