Selfish – or is it?

When you take that short intake of breath, maybe say a curse word under your breath and then say “Yes, OK of course I will” to yet another request, there’s a cost. So many women tell me how overstretched they feel and how the lines between work/home...

Easy … or is it?

When we decided to go to Manchester for an art exhibition this week, it would have been so easy to have changed our mind and here are just a few of the reasons. The 500 mile round tripFuel and an overnight stay in a hotel2-days from our ‘staycation’...

What was I thinking?

It’s so easy to upset or to disconnect with someone when you give your opinion – or a sense of your opinion – too soon. I’ve found a really useful little word which acknowledges what you’ve just...

Only 10 Minutes

“I’ll take that up when I have more time” or “When I’m on my holidays maybe I’ll try again” or “I never seem to have enough time to ___” fill in the blank.  That was a conversation I had with my VIP Client...

Simple and hard to do

One of the first things I remember when I went on my ‘taster’ coaching weekend back in 2005 was about listening. Not listening to respond but listening to understand. It’s hard to do when you’ve been hard wired to listen and respond....

Good Friends do this

When you get something skewed, wrong, confused do you speak to yourself in a way you’d speak to a good friend? Listening to your way of speaking to yourself is a lifelong quest.  My work with corporate career women over the last 15 years has given...

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