Excitement can be overrated

“Oh I don’t know, it’s been OK – nothing exciting” that’s often the response my husband Snowy will give me when I ask about his day. Here’s the thing about that response, which can be perfunctory and not necessarily...

So What? Then What?

As I listened to my client, let’s call her Melissa, I thought to myself “Oh my, how tough it must be to operate like this, no wonder you’re feeling stuck.” Melissa was explaining to me how she was so fearful of the word “No” that...

Do you build this in?

t was SO obvious when she said it and even with all my years of experience helping women create and maintain personal boundaries, I missed it for myself!  Heyho… “Kay, you’ve just hosted a 2-day live retreat online and had a birthday celebration...

Careful Who You Listen To

“Oh but Kay, you’ll be so lonely..” I’d just told my dear Mum that my partner Steve and I were splitting up.  It was the year 2000 and so many things shifted for so many of us. I knew Steve and I weren’t going to make it into this...

Don’t just ignore it

When you’ve made something happen, achieved something, put something right, done something you’ve been putting off – when, in other words, you put your mind to something and it happens, how do you celebrate?   Do you celebrate?  How do...

It was funny and a lesson

“Kay, what’s a secretary?”  “Oh and what does being good at shorthand and typing mean?”  What?! I was speaking as part of panel for an education initiative for the Chartered Insurance Institute and The Lord Mayor’s Appeal...

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